Can’t Orgasm With a Partner

For some women achieving female orgasm during intercourse seems impossible. The way the female body is wired can make it difficult for woman to have an orgasm from intercourse alone.

Not able to orgasm with your partner is also referred as sexual problem.

A sexual problem refers to a problem that prevents an individual from experiencing satisfaction from the sexual activity. Few of the causes resulting in sexual problems are such as:

• changes in sexual functions after a hysterectomy (surgical removal of the uterus),
• loss of estrogen that leads to menopause,
• side effect from medications taken for diabetes, heart disease, neurological disease
• stress, anxiety, concern about sexual problems, relationships, depressions
• Chronic bladder infection, vaginal or cervical infections

Obviously, there are no easy way out to solve the above mentioned. No doubt that counseling has helped many to overcome this, it is always advisable to discuss this with your partner first.

Relating back to the orgasm difficulties, there are a few tips that one can try if the couple would like to figure out the causes themselves:

1. If you would want more of clitoral stimulation during intercourse, try a variation of the missionary position. After your partner enters you, put your legs together and have him move his hips to line them up with your. Rock gently back and forth and you will find that you have more clitoral stimulation during intercourse. (This is just one of many positions)
2. If you would want more of g-spot orgasm, g-spot is a small gland you can feel from inside the vagina. It’s on the same side as your belly and it is about two to three inches from the vaginal opening. It will become larger when you are sexually aroused and hence, easier to feel.
3. After trying suggestion 1 and 2 and still not achieving what you expect to, you may want to consider introducing a toy into your bedroom. There are many vibrators on the market that can be used during intercourse. Some are simple vibrating bullets that can be placed on the clitoris during intercourse. If you would like to learn more about getting a vibrators, read another featured article of ours here………………………………

Now, if you are feeling frustrated with your sex life, it’s time to do something about it. Achieving female orgasm during intercourse can take patience and experimentation, but it is possible and fulfilling.